Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and I am the life. Those who believe in me, even though they die, shall live, and whoever believes in me shall never die” (John 11:25).  Death is an important part of the cycle of life.  Worship and celebration are also appropriate responses in times of loss of loved one.  These ministries help in the healing process for everyone in the human family.

Following the death of a loved one, please consult with our pastoral staff so that we might assist in planning the services to remember and celebrate the life of the dearly departed.  If the funeral or memorial service is to be held at the church, the pastor will meet with the family to finalize date, time, music, format, and other matters.  During these times of bereavement, we serve at the pleasure of the family.

Our prayer for families suffering loss is always that “the peace of God which passes all understanding will keep your hearts and minds in the knowledge of the love of God and of his Son Jesus Christ our Lord.”

For more information, please contact our church office at (708) 335-4500.

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How to Make It Through Death Anniversaries

As Christians, our journey is defined by our unwavering faith in the promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ. Yet, the pain of losing a loved one remains a complex emotion that can resurface, especially on the anniversary of their passing. Death anniversaries can stir a whirlwind of emotions, reminding us of the void left behind. In this post, we’ll delve deeper into the challenges posed by death anniversaries, the range of emotions they evoke, and practical ways to navigate through this difficult time while leaning on our faith.

The Difficulties of Death Anniversaries:

The anniversary of a loved one’s passing can be an emotionally charged day, marked by a deep sense of longing and reflection. Memories flood our thoughts, and the sense of loss can feel as fresh as it was on the day it happened. We may question why such a tragedy occurred and struggle to find a sense of closure. During this time, the heartache we feel can manifest in various ways, affecting both our emotional and physical well- being.

Emotions That May Stir:

Death anniversaries have a unique way of unearthing emotions that may have been tucked away. These emotions, each a testament to the profound bond we shared with

the departed, include:

Sadness and Grief: These are often the most immediate emotions that surface, reflecting the vast emptiness left by our loved one’s absence. The pain of their absence can feel overwhelming, causing tears to flow as if the wound is freshly opened.

Anger: Grief can manifest as anger, directed at God, the circumstances, or even the person we lost. We may grapple with questions like “Why did this happen?” or “Why did God allow this?”

Guilt: The anniversary of a death can stir up feelings of guilt and regret, particularly if we had unresolved issues or unspoken words. We may find ourselves wishing we had done things differently or been more present.

Nostalgia: Memories of shared moments, laughter, and even challenges can bring a mix of bittersweet nostalgia. These memories serve as a reminder of the depth of our connection.

Hopelessness: The weight of loss can lead to feelings of hopelessness, making us wonder if life will ever regain its sense of normalcy. It can seem as though the future is forever marked by this absence.

Navigating Through the Day

While there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to handling a death anniversary, our faith offers a beacon of hope and strength to guide us through this challenging time:


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Prayer and Reflection: Set aside intentional time for prayer and reflection. Pour out your heart to God, expressing your pain, questions, and gratitude for the time you shared with your loved one. Seek comfort in His presence and draw strength from scripture passages that remind us of God’s love, mercy, and the promise of eternal life (John 14:1-4).

Connecting with Others: Surround yourself with a supportive community of friends and family who understand your grief. Share stories, memories, and emotions with them. Sometimes, talking about our loved ones can help keep their memory alive and bring healing.

Honoring Their Memory: Engage in

activities that celebrate and honor your loved one’s life. Visit their favorite places, engage in hobbies you enjoyed

together, or perform acts of kindness in their memory. Creating positive experiences can help shift the focus from their passing to the beauty of their legacy.

Professional Support: Seeking professional counseling is a testament to your strength and commitment to healing. If you find it challenging to cope with your

emotions, don’t hesitate to reach out to a grief counselor. These professionals are equipped to provide guidance and support tailored to your unique needs.

Remembering God’s Promises: Turn to scripture for solace and reassurance. Meditate on verses such as Psalm 34:18, which reminds us that “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” Let these promises remind you that God walks beside you through every step of your grief journey.

Grieving the loss of a loved one is a deeply personal experience that requires time, patience, and self-compassion. While death anniversaries may evoke a wide range of emotions, our faith provides a sturdy foundation to help us navigate through the storm. Whether you find comfort in prayer, draw strength from your community, engage in meaningful activities, seek professional support, or meditate on scripture, know that there’s no ‘right’ way to grieve. Each person’s journey is unique, and your emotions are valid.

Remember, you are not alone on this path of healing. If you’re struggling and seeking guidance, consider visiting for more information on finding a grief counselor who can walk alongside you. Through prayer, reflection, and the unshakable foundation of our faith, we can find comfort, strength, and healing even on the most challenging days.

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